Tuesday, April 13, 2010

A strong dose of honesty

My friend Brian showed me a video on youtube by this kid who tells you the things he hates. He is really dramatic and hits some things dead on the head. Search for the video "Things I hate"- it has a LOT of profanity in it though- so be fair warned. Im having a crappy day because of things that I hate- so I thought I would entertain myself and write about it and not say any more mean (apparently) things today. I know hate is a strong word, it just makes the story better for me to use it- some of this really is hate and some of it is strong dislike. 
  • I hate hotdogs, hotdog water, and the mere talk of them. EW. No- I would not eat one if I was starving. I dont care how hungry I was/am....not going to happen.
  • I hate when someone asks for your opinion and you give it to them and they get mad. I know I can be very opinionated and very blunt- but dont ask if you dont want me to tell you the truth. Seriously- so many people get mad when I answer their questions- what would you do- what do you think. You asked what "I" thought. Keep that in mind. 
  • I hate when you go out of your way to do something for someone and then you get nothing in return. 
  • I hate fake people. I am SO GLAD I am not "friends" with a lot of people that I was at one time very close to. Dont try and be one thing one day and another the next. These people are fake because their lifestyles are never consistent. I heard a so called "friend", who was a Christian once say "I know my lifestyle isnt Christian when people look at me. I dont think "Christian" when I look at my life, but Im not ready to change it either.". WHAT? Wow- again this is why I hate fake people. One other time- I heard some people say "its ok to drink after a Bible study if you do it responsibly"...come again?? I feel like studying the Bible doesnt merritt the opportunity to have a few drinks after reading God's word.Thats wrong to me- and let me put this disclaimer out there now- if any of this offends you- then so be it. Im not putting blame on names, but Im exercising my right to freedom of speech. 
  • I hate when people put pictures up on facebook that are 15 of the same pose. Just pick one people and show it off. I could care less about every one of those pictures that looks EXACTLY THE SAME. Stupid.
  • I hate when older people add me on facebook. They act like it is just some new phenomenon and cant wait to be my friend. Um- I have had facebook since 2005. Its for my friends. Not my friend's mom's. So- you can bet your bottom dollar you will be waiting an eternity to hear back from that pending friend request- because it will never happen. I dont want you in my business and I SURE AS HECK dont want you posting your stupid hearts and farmville crap on my wall.
  • I hate when people make an awkward situation and ask you "dont you just love this" and you just have to smile because you hate EVERYTHING about it. Or "my kids are so great- there are not any people like them on the planet". You are right- they are spoiled brats or jerks depending on the age.
  • I hate when people wear mismatched socks.
  • I hate when girls wear sofee shorts with Ugg boots.
  • I hate that I lose EVERYTHING. I have recently lost my passport and I am so livid. I have lost a lot of other things too..and it just makes me so mad and disappointed in myself.
  • I hate when people keep making notes that my parents give me everything. Yes I am VERY blessed. I wasnt blessed with siblings- so count your blessings. My blessing is that I dont have to share my parents. It is really frustrating when people remind you constantly that you grew up with a good life. And say "your daddy does this for you" "You got this because of your parents" "You havent done anything because your parents do it for you".  What people dont realize are the things I do on my own. Like pay my bills. make grown up decisions. Got a Masters. Have nice things that are well preserved because I know how to take care of things, unlike so many people. None of my stuff looks old or worn and my house isnt messy- I take care of the things I am charged with.
  • I hate when waiters/waitresses dont bring you a refill. Hello Im gasping from thirst over here. That my friend is a SERIOUS determiner on your tip.
  • I hate when people refer to me as "mean". Sometimes I can be. But please take a FULL look back at yourself and note that you can be as well. I know I can be hard on kids- but I was raised that you arent babied and you dont whine. Though some of you make think differently- see above about being spoiled. If you kid is acting up and you are the parent and letting them run hog wild- then why shouldnt I say something to them about stopping slamming pool balls together and screaming or running in church.
  • I hate sitting at work with nothing to do. I like event days.
  • I hate that I dont work out like I did in HS.
  • I hate ignorant people. Just being stupid people.
  • I hate that I made all these friends in college and now have none!! of them here with me. 
  • I hate that Student Health Services is moving out to West Campus with the workout stuff and intramurals. It is the STUPIDEST decision ever.
  • I hate when parents let their kids stand on the pews and tops of pews at church. Come on show some respect.
  • I hate that the things that are GOOD for you cost so much- organic- healthy - natural. 
That will be it for now. I am just frustrated with a lot of things and people right now.